{"id":2469,"date":"2022-05-15T07:27:23","date_gmt":"2022-05-15T07:27:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.punca.si\/?p=2469"},"modified":"2022-05-19T11:45:17","modified_gmt":"2022-05-19T11:45:17","slug":"si-nisi-tako-vsec-kot-bi-si-bila-rada-bi-na-svojem-telesu-rada-spremenila-nekaj-stvari-kaj-od-tega-si-se-naucila-od-mame-in-kako-to-lahko-spremenis-je-napisala-dr-lucija-cevnik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.punca.si\/?p=2469","title":{"rendered":"Si tvoja mama ni v\u0161e\u010d v ogledalu? Kaj s tem sporo\u010da tebi &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><span class=\"font-210119\" style=\"color: #fbbe9f;\">Draga punca, mogo\u010de si skozi svoje otro\u0161tvo ves \u010das opazovala svojo mamo, kako se je ozirala v svoj odsev v zrcalu in nad njim vzdihovala. Ni si bila v\u0161e\u010d.<\/span><\/h3>\n<h4><span class=\"font-210119\" style=\"color: #81b38a;\">Morda tvoja mama ni bila najbolj\u0161i zgled<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Hotela je o\u017eje boke, manj\u0161o zadnjico. Hudovala se je nad svojimi prvimi gubicami, ki so se zarezovale v ko\u017eo. Tarnala je nad nepokornimi lasmi. Preklinjala svojo telesno te\u017eo. Se jezila nad pora\u0161\u010denostjo. Se poni\u017eevala in kritizirala. Telo je morda celo izpostavljala raznim bole\u010dim in neprijetnim praksam, da bi bila videti &#8216;lep\u0161a&#8217;, ustreznej\u0161a. Ti si jo ves ta \u010das nemo spremljala. Tvoje o\u010di so bile usmerjene v njeno telo in geste, tvoja u\u0161esa so pridno poslu\u0161ala in se u\u010dila. Z leti si se z zgledovanjem po njenem vzoru nau\u010dila, da telo, tak\u0161no kot ti je bilo dano, nikoli ni in ne more biti dovolj dobro.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"font-210119\" style=\"color: #81b38a;\">Kaj lahko TI naredi\u0161 druga\u010de?<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Da se bo\u0161 lahko po\u010dutila prijetno v svoji ko\u017ei, mora\u0161 vendar najprej ustrezati tak\u0161nim in druga\u010dnim lepotnim idealom in standardom! Tako kot mama zdaj tudi ti stoji\u0161 pred zrcalom in \u017ealostno zre\u0161 v svojo podobo. Nisi zadovoljna s tem, kar vidi\u0161? Misli\u0161, da si grda, debela, neprivla\u010dna? Skoraj v vsakem telesnem delu vidi\u0161 nepremostljive nev\u0161e\u010dnosti?<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"font-210119\" style=\"color: #81b38a;\">Ustavi se<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Nikar, draga punca! Prosim, ustavi se! Posku\u0161aj pogledati na svoje telo z druga\u010dnimi o\u010dmi. Ne bodi kot mama, spremeni zorni kot. Pomisli, kaj vse ti tvoje telo nudi. Kaj vse ti omogo\u010da? Noge te nosijo po svetu, z rokami lahko koga objame\u0161, stori\u0161 ne\u0161teto razli\u010dnih stvari. S svojim telesom lahko spleza\u0161 na goro, plava\u0161 v morju. U\u017eiva\u0161 v dotiku, okusu, vonjavah, barvah, glasbi. Tvoje telo je vendar \u010dudovit instrument, ki ti omogo\u010da pre\u0161tevilne radosti. Pa kaj, \u010de nisi videti kot tvoja najljub\u0161a IG ali Youtube zvezdnica! Verjemi, tudi ona v resnici (brez vseh filtrov, make-upa, stilistov, spretnosti fotografa) ni videti tako popolno, kot jo prikazuje fotografija!<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"font-210119\" style=\"color: #81b38a;\">Kaj vse ti daje tvoje telo?<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Draga punca, \u0161tej prednosti in ne pomanjkljivosti svojega telesa. Bodi hvale\u017ena za vse, kar ti tvoje telo omogo\u010da in nudi. Bodi sre\u010dna v enkratni preobleki, ki ti jo je dala mati Narava. Ti si lepa. Si vredna. In si ok, natan\u010dno tak\u0161na, kot si. 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